Day by day some try to use their parents like a mom's or dad's bank, just trying to drain whatever they have like a track getting drained from its tank.
They seemed never to have a conscious or never care, they just go along day by day being selfish and unaware.
They never try to help themselves they never try to go further in life and grow, they never seemed to understand that they are adults and need to find their lives from parents and they need to let go.
Yes! To let go and find their worth, fly out the nest and land on a strong solid turf of standing instead of calling to parents or others and some do it with such a demanding.
Children need to learn an independent way, some need to stop lagging in ways.
A good job is out there if only some will look, instead of nagging mom and dad or others about money, a credit card or cheque book.
I was once in a conversation with a lady and she told me that her son is over fifty something years old and he really needs to find a life and that he keeps begging her for money all the days of his life.
He thinks that she is a mom's bank situated in her home, so he can just call to mom and say ‘‘ Mom I need some money but It's not a loan’’.
Don't get me wrong I don't have anything against a parent or parents helping out their children, child or other, but It's the procedures and precisions it's the mentality of ways, it's the depiction of a grown child if they are just going to lay their life away just begging and wasting their life long days.
And just think that mom, dad or some other individual owes them something in life instead of them moving on with their own lives to be independent and free, instead of trying to drain individuals everyday just using their selfish self of greed.
I know with economic structure some things have really changed, but still that is no reason of excuse for anyone to be chained or selfishly interrupt their parents or anyone's life to gain a deposition for a free take, everyone is entitled to be helped for a little while until there have found something to do and get off of the break.
Being independent is being free, being independent is being structured individuals learn strategies of life.
Being independent is not a forceful act it's a will power of way, it's an individual deciding in life that they want to do better and try to achieve meaningful aspects in life that will help them to be independently structured in ways.
So all these children, grown men and women out there, that think that your parents or others owe them something, think about your lifestyle structure because laziness isn't going to get you anywhere.
You know! The main fact that some of you are still being pulled along by mummy, daddy or others only shows the loving hearts that some individuals bare, but good heart should never be used, disrupted or abused just try to be independent and find the right structured living way.
Just look to be independent learn to have a strong structured independent life, don't try to milk or feed off of others just look to live your own right natural life.
There is so far a parent or others can take you, and some of you really must let go, you're not going to drop if you try to fly as with a strong willing heart of will power you are just going to soar.
And some of you will have an anchor standing by, from mom, dad or loved one but first and foremost in life you just need to try.
So don't try to pull on the anchor to fast, get a good life's standing independent structure that will continue to last.
Be independently free be independent and sure be independent and know where your life is going instead of knocking on mom's, dad's or other's financial saving's door.
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