Work, World and Ethics- An Unappreciative Boss

 So often individuals find themselves working for an unappreciative boss, one who is always and only about the money aspect of said business.

An unappreciative boss who doesn't seem to ever appreciate the employee's distribution, honesty, reliability, respectability, and performance.

I for one have come across employers of that caliber and I have also noticed how arrogant and selfish they continue to be.

Even to this day and doing my routine rounds I often come across individuals who work for unappreciative employers.

And I continued to hear conversations of disconnections between employees and employers and the truth is, that the vast amount of unsatisfied employees, is so overwhelming.

In the arena of business, employers must and should contribute themselves in all areas of their businesses not in arrogant, harsh manipulating ways but with decency, professionalism, commitment, and appreciation not only to their businesses but to their employees as also, as they are the ones that distribute awareness customers and business to their businesses.

Last year, for instance, I spoke to many unsatisfied employees of businesses who were concerned about bonus payments or even a thank you or an appreciation note or voice of ''Job Well Done'' from their employers.

They were upset and some were threatening to quit because of the long-standing hours, hard work, respectable, honesty, and professionalism that they put into the said businesses, and at the end of the year, not even a thank you note of any kind.

What I can say is that it should never be about the money, it should be about the integrity of the employers their conscience, their ability to see the kind of staff that they have, the employee's distribution to the business, the responsibilities of running the business and for the employer to show his or her appreciation to his or her staff of employees whether he can afford it or not.

A ''Thank you"' meeting or ''Thank you'' card could be some kind of good gesture to show appreciation to staff as it doesn't always have to be about the money.

As some employees sympathized with some employers to know that sometimes a business might not be doing that good and here a ''Thank you'' note of some kind or other benefits etc, will be well appreciated.

You see the mere fact that some employers aren't considerate enough to show their face to show appreciation in a truthful way only shows more guilt and selfishness.

Employers not saying a word and hiding from employees to avoid conversations etc, is not the right way to do things as all this does is show more guilt and arrogance toward themselves.

A Loud Mouth Boss

The work arena of business can really have an effect on individuals and depends on the business and what is going on in it one way or the other.

But what does one do when the change is not on the staff but with the boss?

"A loud Mouth Boss" who doesn't know when, where or how to conduct his affairs or the affairs of the business in a decent and professional manner.

You know my experiences I know made me a better writer as it's the experiences I write about that others can relate to because they are things that happened each and every day.

Well, I will get on with it and don't keep you the reader waiting too long for the experience.

Yes, I had an encounter with a very loud mouth boss, and going into the company for the first time one would think that he would have been discreet, well it wasn't like that not at all.

On day one I was confronted with a very loud embarrassing moment between the boss and a supervisor that made her stand up and cried, I was not the one involved in the issue but I could feel the embarrassment in the lady.

One thing I can say about myself is that I am a no-nonsense person and yes I always speak my heart not my mind, as sometimes the mind likes to manipulate words and put them in directions that they are not meant to go.

I just looked and analyzed the situation and the boss's actions and attitude towards his staff,'' How would he confront me if a situation occurred? I asked myself.

I sat at my desk and watched as the supervisor walked off crying, and as I looked at the boss he had a look of satisfaction on his face as if he was proud of his behavior.

One thing I have learned through the years of dealing with businesses, customers, and bosses is that never let them or their behavior take you out of your positive zone no matter what.

Always stand firm and it takes two to make an issue of conversation go from bad to worst and in business, no one needs that.

In my position, I was there to do a job to the best of my ability and that was what I was going to do, and ''A Loud Mouth Boss'' was not going to stop me from achieving my goals.

I felt somehow the boss must have noticed the no-nonsense person in me because he never once approached me in any loud manner as he would the other staff members, actually around me he was more like a tamed cat.

And you know what I did? I used that opportunity to speak to him about his attitude, ways, and the way he was treating staff, and yes I got the cat to purr because after that he was a settled man.

What I am saying here is that Bosses come in all different kinds of forms, shapes, and sizes and with all different kinds of attitudes.

But it's for you the employee to take your stand if you are standing on a foundation of love, truth, and all aspects of positive ways and living no one can move your standing.

Your standing will always be strong and Yes! Maybe you will be able to teach a thing or two to someone that will leave a memorable impact.

The Baby Boss Type

Did you ever had to deal with a " Baby Boss"? A boss that keeps crying and complaining about something that he or she can not get or get done?

As in your ears quite frequently"I'm Your Boss! That is all you will constantly hear.

The type of boss that seemed to always have on a wet diaper that needs a changing or check.

A Baby Boss goes the whole day complaining about an issue that he or she can not resolve and just making the place confused even making some employees blow a little fuse.

A type of boss that never wants anyone's advice only their own advice will do, and they always keep questioning if it's a concern for you.

A Baby Boss that seemed never to understand or try to get directions from a helping hand.

One that only knows how to push past every relevant cause and only push harsh commands and demands.

They don't know how to do it and they always seemed lost, always upset about something or the other without a cause.

A Baby Boss that tries to treat the employees like shit or in their heads might be thinking to throw a brick.

A Baby Boss that always throw tantrums' and never seemed to settle down sometimes you'll think they'll automatically go and be rolling on the ground.

As they keep going on and on whining for so very long.

With an immature mind and ways of the heart, one who has employees feel like they would pack up and depart.

As they always seemed to want a hot bottle of milk to make them settle down, or you never know as some get so flustered you might eventually see them throwing some object or slamming a door in hard.

I've had some experiences with some Baby Bosses' in my earlier days and to them, this is what I said.

"You know you have a business but not a business heart or head, don't you think it's the right time to throw in the towel and let someone give you a hot bottle of milk and put you to bed? ;)

Employees are what makes the business not just the boss and it's time that employers treat the employees with respect, and appreciation because employers are not the employees' God.

 

Bossy Bosses

In my years of workmanship and having the ability to maneuver into different passages of work fields with others, I've noticed the trend of "Bossy Bosses who just like to cook up their employees with a hot pot of the most despicable treatment approach and communication works.

You know what? A staff of employees is individuals and Yes! human beings also.

A rough harsh dictatorship and translucent behaviors of gestures towards individuals or employees who just want to help build your company aren't going to make the company any better but they will only cause a crack in its foundation of standing and communication between employers and employees. 

My thing is "Tolerate and Educate" each other truthfully,  get along so as to tolerate, educate and learn from each other and be team players to make the company strive and grow in success.

Good tendencies of dictatorship and communication towards staff are what makes them appreciate their employment ships as well as their Employers'.  

A Bossy dysfunctional boss just adds up to" Deliberate staff moods of terrible attitudes" and that is never needed as I said the company will eventually crumble and fall.

Some "Bosses" used their titles as queenship, and kingship dictatorships to be idolized in a godly manner.

And believed me when I say, "There is only one God anyone should serve and that is the Only and True Living God the Creator of Heaven and Earth, Your Creator.

It's not about worship or pausing when you lead a group in business, it's about workmanship and cause.

I once had a boss with this mentality of godship in mind and ways, Yes! a very unappreciative boss.

And as always I let it be known and noted to whom I served and Yes! he understood where I was coming from. :)))

A Boss is supposed to be a leader of the kind to dictate and managed proceedings, a business, and a company of the staff.

The title "Boss" is not the mark of a blueprint for aggressive, belittling, don't care and ill-treatment attitudes towards a staff's individuals or employees.

It's for the emergence of a true dictatorship of leadership. 

Never let your degrees be "Degrees to Torment" for destructive, devious, and deliberate acts of selfishness, nuscience, and arrogance.

Used them for good " To Tolerate and Educate" as a raising caused for growth, business-wise, productivity and teamwork.

A business is not for idols, slavery, or others to belittle anyone, it's for teamwork, with all players on the field, that's going towards the same goals and caused.

For productive ways of growth mentally, physically, and spiritually in the workmanship of business and others.

So "Boss" now that you're in a position try always to "Tolerate and Educate" and appreciate your staff of employees and the standing you have as "Boss" to a managing team.

Life is a learning process and so is entering a field of business management in the leadership of employees and duties. 

Learn from each other and make proceeding grow and work, a good reputation with good ways of business, productivity, and Yes! Humanitarian ways. 

Open Cultures.

 

The orthodox way in which many uncivilized individuals tend to push the "Cancel Culture" motto streamline is very ignorant, the fact of the matter is that all cultures are shared and continue to be shared worldwide, whether it's a recipe, a way of dress, attitude, music, speech, hairstyles lifestyle, alliance, etc culture continues to be shared.

Each nation carries its own people and culture and with many visiting bodies and outside foreign knowledge we will and do see a cultural exchange in one way, shape, or form, a mimicking of which others do carry on, and others get amused by the new cultures and they to carry on and mimic what they like of the culture of what they have seen.

The question should be, "can culture be canceled? I would say that depending on the body of nations, which is actually the people themselves, they would have to altogether generate another culture to cancel what was theirs, the culture that was genuine of themselves.

Yes! In a world of societies in which we all live, we are seeing different cultures being changed and mimicked.

We are seeing some individuals of some steady nations mimicking the American way, and others mimic other nations by using different food recipes, wear, etc.

Once before we use to see original cultures that belonged to its nation body stay in that nation, but time has passed and many individuals have developed a taste for change to try something new.

So they have envelope new nations' cultures, from a way of now having surgical change appearances to a change in food recipes, clothing, attitude, hairstyles, music, and speech. 

The mocking factor of open cultures has changed the outlook of many individuals worldwide, as we now see them as not of themselves but of a mocking cultural change. 

In societies worldwide, some individuals are trying to mimic everyone and their true identity has somehow become lost in the change as they gather and mimic new cultures.

It may be good for some and it may be bad for others, as some will find themselves birthing stuck in old ways of cultural tardiness, and others will lose themselves as they joined themselves in a mimicking open culture that might just stain their reputation in life.

 

Trying to lose unwanted pounds is a good thing.

Trying to lose unwanted pounds is a good thing, as long as you don't lose yourself in the process or damage your mental focus, to love yourself and live.

Almost everyone has goals of losing unwanted pounds, and with the lockdowns, for many, it's been a hard road to accomplish.

But as long as you are a self-motivated individual who knows what you want, how your body should look, and how you want to feel, you would know the right steps to take to achieve such a weight loss challenge.

First and foremost bad eating habits will have t stop and healthy eating must be distributed to self

I know that some individuals have lost jobs etc. in the process of the lockdowns and financial benefits for some is on a low, but that should not stop you if you are determined to lose weight, there are a lot of things at home that can be utilized to give yourself a good workout.

The gym is not always the solution and if you can't make it to the gym, there are still avenues that you can live by as you try to get the body in lost weight mode.

Keeping your body in good standing will pay off, and in the process, you will throw off any health problems that may occur with much weight gain.

Losing Weight The Natural Way- Believe In Yourself.

 Trying to lose some extra weight is not a bad thing and anyone that divert to this way should not be humiliated. 

Having extra weight on your body can be very uncomfortable and unhealthy. 

In a wayward way of a world that we live in, where now some are getting procedures done to take off extra weight, I'm not an individual that will find myself on that path as I believe always in a natural way to do things. 

Don't get me wrong and please don't get my words tied up Okay!  

I do know that some individuals have to do some surgeries to help out of some life-threatening situations but as far as cosmetic surgery goes to change your outer look that is something that I don't believe in doing, as I said, I believe in doing things the natural way to get results. 

Individuals out there try to go on a path of losing way with diets, pills, exercise with some even starving themselves to get that ‘‘ Good Look. ’’

And most of the time they always fall back into their old ways of unhealthy eating and not exercising.

MOTIVATE SELF

When anyone is on a path to losing weight, first they need the motivation of self, they need to tell self ‘‘ I Can Do This. ’’

Yes! Some do get motivated by others, but what happens when that person is not around or able to present themselves to your works of weight loss regime? You the individual will not find the need to be motivated anymore. 

As I said, ‘‘ Motivate Self. ’’ You'll be surprised how much weight you can lose with the right mentality to do the right things. 

I found that losing weight can be so easy when You have strong willpower and a strong mentality of heart to always do things the natural way to get effective results. 

I lost 30lbs in three months not once but twice, I not only wanted to challenge myself I also wanted to lose weight and see how much I can lose as I motivate myself to do it. 

Also, I wanted to make a note of how easily and effectively it can be done when you know what you're doing and how to do it. 

I never used pills, never went to the gym and I never starved myself, I just maintain healthy eating but with less disposition of food. 

Instead of pep drinks, I used water and drank water with everything I ate, I would only drink fruit juice when my body needed sugar as an absorbent to help with the body. 

I walk a lot like an exercise routine and I stop eating anything heavy after 5 pm. 

In the morning I started off with a hot cup of tea that helps me start my day, hot tea to me is essential as it removes the air and burns out anything that doesn't belong :)

A small bowl of cereal I would use without milk or sugar and when I'm finished I just drank a glass of water that kept me full. 

For lunch, I will prepare normal food but my intake I would use a smaller dish instead of a large dish that I was so accustomed to. 

And for dinner another cup of hot tea with some very lightly salted cracker, then some water later in the night. 

First I noticed the weight on my face was going, then my shoes were slipping off my feet. 

My waistline was getting smaller and my clothes were getting bigger on me. 

I stayed at home and did some squats, lounges, and lifts to tone my body and the definition started appearing after a week. 

I started off with 10 then 15 then 25 until I got to 50 and those exercises I did early every morning before I went to work, took a bath and my body felt good :)

I was asked by some people if I was in the gym and was told that I looked like 16 years old. 

You know! Sometimes Individuals set out to lose weight and when you look at them they don't look so healthy they just look like they are tiring out and starving their bodies and their skin color, texture, and tone look so worn out. 

Losing weight and looking unhealthy? That's not the way to lose weight, you must always maintain a stable structure for muscle growth, weight loss, and body healing. 

Doing too much too fast will only make the body weak, and the immune system will eventually break down, causing the individual to get sick all the time. 

As the body will have more jobs of healing muscle mass etc with the other duties of maintaining itself, and for a while, that will confuse it a bit. 

As far as taking supplies I never trusted them, I believe in using the natural elements of resources to get whatever nutrition I may need. 

Mentally I understand my body and I know what it wants, what it doesn't want, and why it wants it. 

Losing weight in a natural and effective way lets your body acknowledged that you are in control and you will work along with its necessary needs. 

Not pollute it with unhealthy things that it doesn't necessarily need. 

When I lost the 30 pounds my body adapted to a new way, my stomach got smaller thus only allowing me to eat small portions, which was the necessary potions that I knew it needed, healthy things that will help my body maintain good movement, growth, muscle tone, appearance, and energy. 

When you lose weight the natural way you feel good in body, mind, and heart, your appearance will change to a more defined you, but never to an overworked structured of you, because you are able to maintain and handle your body restructuring at a timely pace. 

Doing too much too fast is not good for the body, it just confuses the body and makes it weak, that's why Individuals that do strenuous exercises, etc. after just go on a protein binge, to try to get back what they lost so fast. 

And some of them start looking weak in the eyes, soft on the skin, and loses the balance of self, which is maintaining a healthy way, they tend to strive on all artificial contents to absorb in a wrecked body. 

Anyone can lose as much weight the natural way if they want to, it just takes motivation of self-strong willpower a strong mind, and heart to get the job done. 

And mentally, spiritually, and physically you don't feel burn out, you just feel refresh, light, and energized, and that's a good feeling to have Yes! Always a natural feel from natural works :)

 

It's time to Choose! The Decision is yours to make.

 

I will not be targeted, abused, or betrayed by demonic proposals.

Yes, we have acknowledged in Ephesians 6:12  For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

But still, having individuals in one's life that compensate and strive with evil.

Doing bad having greed with the intent and mechanism to use and betray others with deceptive notions should never be allowed, whether of physical or spiritual orients factors.

The evil intent of men comes from one place, one source, and one diagram of dark evil ways, and evil should never be allowed.

The principal factors are truth and love with a positive aspect with complete compassion to live by.

It's not about the abuse of defiant individuals that willed themselves to work for the dark side of the evil one who instituted evil representations.

There are two sides, two manufactured ways, a positive and negative factor, good and bad institutional benefits, negative and positive compositions, and light and dark orients that will be played out. 

There is no "in-between" where you can be chairly seated to watch the show from the sidelines without participation.

One must value themself on the path they are going to take.

The willpower and decision of desire are for everyone to decide upon, and the option of wanting to live is structured by love, light, and positive ordinance.

Or live a life of dark intentions of hate, greed, and pride agenda of enormity.

One cannot have both, one must decide and choose, the option is there for all to decide upon, and that's to go right or wrong.

I've propelled myself into a knowing wanting alignment, always distributing truth, love, and positive factors because nothing else can apply.

I was formed and made with an institution of love in love for love and its truthful lighted positive attributes, and I will not have it any other way.