What is a mother when she does not show genuine love, care, guidance, protection, control, authority, or interest for her child or children?
She is a mere vessel of production of birth, as guardianship will not be applied.
Raising children calls for intellect, intelligence, strength, commitment, truths, authority, values, and consistency.
And in societies that we all live in this world, it calls for full focus with the true understanding to direct and raise a child or children the right and true way.
Some mother neglects their child or children for a lot of reasons and one of them is for men, as they leave the children to fend for themselves.
Some just placed materialistic wares in the child or children's hands, mere devices, etc that will keep them occupied that would take the workmanship of taking care of the child or children off their hands.
In some households individuals have a child or children with nothing but devices and no books, no educational structures that they can learn from, just toys, games, etc and the child or children isn't learning anything but just playing with devices, etc as they continue to stare into them like program addicts.
In this time and era, individuals need to understand that everything can be addictive, and just like drugs and alcohol, etc children, can get hooked on them.
And starting a young child or children on such addictive devices isn't a wise thing to do, because parents are going to get a backlash of tantrums when they have to take the devices etc away.
Some individuals just think immaturely when raising children it's like a child trying to raise a child, and that is exactly what is happening in such societies in the world that we all live in.
Individuals with immature thinking are bearing children without understanding the basic needs and true structures to put in place to raise a child or children.
Some Individuals are programming children just like themselves in wayward ways of dispositions, and the child or children cannot truly focus to understand and adapt to the right way in environments that they go in.
That is a very sad situation when a child or children cannot behave themselves properly in public etc when they go out.
If a mother with a child or children cannot apply herself to their upbringing what help is she really to them?
And in a case scenario, it's better and wiser to let the child or children go and live with a guardian that will help raise the child or children the right way.
A child should not have its life tainted because its parents or parent have a tainted life, where obviously mature thinking is never present to help a child or children to get through.
I had so many experiences where I saw a lot of embarrassed individuals with kids of the sort, but you know what? It starts from home, if those children would have had decent bringing up they would definitely know who to behave themselves anywhere they go.
The basic need is to train your child or children from home, don't just place devices of technology into their hands as babysitters because those devices are doing more harm than good.
I've seen some mothers with children that have placed devices into their hands and those little ones just stare away in those devices playing games etc like little control addicts and it's very scary to see them like that.
What sense is it, putting a child or children through torment with technology's devices that zombified the children just making them addictive and stops them from focusing normally?
What gratification is it when a mother can't control her child or children?
And why should a child or children continue to spit or hit anyone?
A child or children that you brought into this world, small children that an adult mother and father should have all control over.
Some mothers just pushed their children aside without even showing them interest and some don't take care of the child or children properly.
Some parents don't like to correct their child or children and in the end, they feel the blow of their bad decision-making.
A screaming child or children that spit and lash out at others is really out of hand and must be dealt with the appropriate way, and I'm not saying to beat the child to death, I'm saying to sit down and talk to your child or children and let them know who is in charge and how they should conduct themselves at home or out, parents should always be in control.
I know of some Individuals with those untrained children that rack havoc etc wherever they go and they just would not behave themselves, and the sad thing about it is that the mothers, etc do not know how to control them or show authority, as they seem to have premature thinking when it comes to raising the children.
And parents with that kind of thinking always have this mentality that they know what they are doing and no one can not tell them how to raise their child or children.
Some mothers can't even cook to prepare proper food for the little ones and all that they stuff their child or children with is snacks and candy, mere junk food that does not have any nutritional benefits for a young child or children growing up.
Is that what being a mother is all about?
Some women say that they can't cook, but they can find all types of sites to go to when they are looking for some kind of materialistic wear, etc and I can assure you that if the interest was there they would surely find some cooking sites to go to, to help evolve themselves in cooking aspect of ways.
My question is Why? Why can't a woman that has a child or children don't know how to cook for them? Have they tried to, did they ever showed interest in learning to do so, or the interest and focus is just on other things or someone that takes up space in their lives and their thoughts.
I cannot see myself with a child or children and don't have the mentality etc to focus on my child or children's welfare in terms of their nutritional benefits learning etc.
It's mandatory to know how to care for a child when giving birth to them.
Ignorant and worthless is an individual that does not take the time to try to help self-achieve in whatever meaningful aspects that they need to be in to help themselves or children get through.
And no excuse if I can't or I don't know-how, should not be accepted, in a world of today with so much relevant information going to and fro why the lack of consistency in not knowing how to cook?
If a mother's priority is not on at least trying to learn to prepare a meal for their child and children where really do they prior lay?
Individuals can find it easy to pick up a device and search for nonessential materialistic wares etc as they go through passages, etc that do not add growth to their structure, as they search for meaningless instead of meaningful aspects that would help them evolve.
Most of them are operating on a mentality that is not only weak but also premature, with minds that are very indecisive and confused.
Having Control of your child or children is needed in so many societies in the world that we all live in.
How many times do you see a small child or children having the upper hand on their mother etc, leaving the parents with much embarrassment after their behavior when they are taken out, etc because at home they were never properly trained on how to conduct themselves?
And that child or children's bad behavior always reflects on the parent, not the child, as they should always be the one with an authoritative structure put in place to let the child know how they should and should not behave at home, at someone, out in public, at school, etc.
Looking for someone to blame? As I said! In this era of technology passages where information can be reached with just a device, everyone should know how to cook, etc.
Also, parenthood guidance aspects automatically turn on when a child is born, that true motherly essence flows into play and helps prepare and guide one into true parenthood.
So many structures of knowledge on how to take care of your child or children are out there, the animals know how to so why can't mankind also, why is it so hard for mere men and women to do?
The structure of some Individuals lack much substance when it comes to controlling a child or children, some Individuals that have a child or children is a child in mind, deed and thought, some of them don't have or know the true guidance of workmanship when it comes to the development, care, etc of a child or children.
In societies in this world that we live in, there are so many contaminants that can corrupt a child or children, and parents, whether single are other, should be equipped with the right knowledge of procedures to know how to take control of their child or children.
A true focus mind and a strong heart are what is needed, not premature minds and individuals with little understanding and with weak structure.
Someone with authority must be able to go forward with a child or children to keep them on the right passages of discipline.
Yes! Proper management that does not have a premature mind.
Proper management must be established in all areas of a household etc where a child or children is growing up in.
If there isn't any true structure for a child or children to be guided right there wouldn't be a good character in the child or children's growth.
Putting blame on anything or anyone other than yourself is selfish because you the Individual have or had time to change things around but unfortunately, something or someone got in the way, and some didn't and some never tried.
The young ones grow up with the mentality that no one can speak to them and they can do whatever they want where they want to, and that is certainly not the right mentality to walk with among societies in this world, as that is a mentality that trouble only follows.
There must be authentic stability in a home where and when it comes to raising a child or children.
Some children see their mother's being abused and some of them automatically take it upon themselves to carry on the same regime.
And as small as they are they show signs, actions, and voice comments of abusive behavior towards their parents and others.
There must be the right path and passages of true guidance when a child or children is involved.
Having a child or children comes with a tag for guidance in every truthful aspect there is, it is not a worthless challenge, it's of all motivational works in all ways, shapes, and forms, Yes! True guardianship helps a child or children evolve and get through.
Too many children are idling in passages and falling to the wayward side because of much negligence from parents and guardians, Yes! Most of them are stuck and going nowhere.
And most of them don't have the mentality to understand that there are truly beneficial ways of evolving in attitude, behavior, etc.
And for those individuals that like to play the blaming game to every question about the upbringing of a child or children I say! Grow Up.
I know how some like to represent themselves in trying to find an answer for their lack of sufficient guidance etc to just take the blame off themselves.
Some go as far as to mention their own upbringing and of never being taught to do such and such.
And you know what I would say to this? Hogwash! That is a useless and undefined concept of an answer that they try to push forth.
If any Individual really and truly wanted to improve themselves in passages whether it's learning to cook etc they would find a way to do such.
To do something that will help them to be more equipped and knowledgeable on child-raising, food preparation, etc.
They will definitely find a way, time, and resources to do it, that is if they are responsible, caring, and interested enough.
And no epic apology isn't going to put an individual in the limelight when they say that their parents never taught them to cook etc.
Those are just useless words coming from an individual or individuals with premature minds that is not interested in evolving or helping themselves or their child or children.
She is a mere vessel of production of birth, as guardianship will not be applied.
Raising children calls for intellect, intelligence, strength, commitment, truths, authority, values, and consistency.
And in societies that we all live in this world, it calls for full focus with the true understanding to direct and raise a child or children the right and true way.
Some mother neglects their child or children for a lot of reasons and one of them is for men, as they leave the children to fend for themselves.
Some just placed materialistic wares in the child or children's hands, mere devices, etc that will keep them occupied that would take the workmanship of taking care of the child or children off their hands.
In some households individuals have a child or children with nothing but devices and no books, no educational structures that they can learn from, just toys, games, etc and the child or children isn't learning anything but just playing with devices, etc as they continue to stare into them like program addicts.
In this time and era, individuals need to understand that everything can be addictive, and just like drugs and alcohol, etc children, can get hooked on them.
And starting a young child or children on such addictive devices isn't a wise thing to do, because parents are going to get a backlash of tantrums when they have to take the devices etc away.
Some individuals just think immaturely when raising children it's like a child trying to raise a child, and that is exactly what is happening in such societies in the world that we all live in.
Individuals with immature thinking are bearing children without understanding the basic needs and true structures to put in place to raise a child or children.
Some Individuals are programming children just like themselves in wayward ways of dispositions, and the child or children cannot truly focus to understand and adapt to the right way in environments that they go in.
That is a very sad situation when a child or children cannot behave themselves properly in public etc when they go out.
If a mother with a child or children cannot apply herself to their upbringing what help is she really to them?
And in a case scenario, it's better and wiser to let the child or children go and live with a guardian that will help raise the child or children the right way.
A child should not have its life tainted because its parents or parent have a tainted life, where obviously mature thinking is never present to help a child or children to get through.
I had so many experiences where I saw a lot of embarrassed individuals with kids of the sort, but you know what? It starts from home, if those children would have had decent bringing up they would definitely know who to behave themselves anywhere they go.
The basic need is to train your child or children from home, don't just place devices of technology into their hands as babysitters because those devices are doing more harm than good.
I've seen some mothers with children that have placed devices into their hands and those little ones just stare away in those devices playing games etc like little control addicts and it's very scary to see them like that.
What sense is it, putting a child or children through torment with technology's devices that zombified the children just making them addictive and stops them from focusing normally?
What gratification is it when a mother can't control her child or children?
And why should a child or children continue to spit or hit anyone?
A child or children that you brought into this world, small children that an adult mother and father should have all control over.
Some mothers just pushed their children aside without even showing them interest and some don't take care of the child or children properly.
Some parents don't like to correct their child or children and in the end, they feel the blow of their bad decision-making.
A screaming child or children that spit and lash out at others is really out of hand and must be dealt with the appropriate way, and I'm not saying to beat the child to death, I'm saying to sit down and talk to your child or children and let them know who is in charge and how they should conduct themselves at home or out, parents should always be in control.
I know of some Individuals with those untrained children that rack havoc etc wherever they go and they just would not behave themselves, and the sad thing about it is that the mothers, etc do not know how to control them or show authority, as they seem to have premature thinking when it comes to raising the children.
And parents with that kind of thinking always have this mentality that they know what they are doing and no one can not tell them how to raise their child or children.
Some mothers can't even cook to prepare proper food for the little ones and all that they stuff their child or children with is snacks and candy, mere junk food that does not have any nutritional benefits for a young child or children growing up.
Is that what being a mother is all about?
Some women say that they can't cook, but they can find all types of sites to go to when they are looking for some kind of materialistic wear, etc and I can assure you that if the interest was there they would surely find some cooking sites to go to, to help evolve themselves in cooking aspect of ways.
My question is Why? Why can't a woman that has a child or children don't know how to cook for them? Have they tried to, did they ever showed interest in learning to do so, or the interest and focus is just on other things or someone that takes up space in their lives and their thoughts.
I cannot see myself with a child or children and don't have the mentality etc to focus on my child or children's welfare in terms of their nutritional benefits learning etc.
It's mandatory to know how to care for a child when giving birth to them.
Ignorant and worthless is an individual that does not take the time to try to help self-achieve in whatever meaningful aspects that they need to be in to help themselves or children get through.
And no excuse if I can't or I don't know-how, should not be accepted, in a world of today with so much relevant information going to and fro why the lack of consistency in not knowing how to cook?
If a mother's priority is not on at least trying to learn to prepare a meal for their child and children where really do they prior lay?
Individuals can find it easy to pick up a device and search for nonessential materialistic wares etc as they go through passages, etc that do not add growth to their structure, as they search for meaningless instead of meaningful aspects that would help them evolve.
Most of them are operating on a mentality that is not only weak but also premature, with minds that are very indecisive and confused.
Having Control of your child or children is needed in so many societies in the world that we all live in.
How many times do you see a small child or children having the upper hand on their mother etc, leaving the parents with much embarrassment after their behavior when they are taken out, etc because at home they were never properly trained on how to conduct themselves?
And that child or children's bad behavior always reflects on the parent, not the child, as they should always be the one with an authoritative structure put in place to let the child know how they should and should not behave at home, at someone, out in public, at school, etc.
Looking for someone to blame? As I said! In this era of technology passages where information can be reached with just a device, everyone should know how to cook, etc.
Also, parenthood guidance aspects automatically turn on when a child is born, that true motherly essence flows into play and helps prepare and guide one into true parenthood.
So many structures of knowledge on how to take care of your child or children are out there, the animals know how to so why can't mankind also, why is it so hard for mere men and women to do?
The structure of some Individuals lack much substance when it comes to controlling a child or children, some Individuals that have a child or children is a child in mind, deed and thought, some of them don't have or know the true guidance of workmanship when it comes to the development, care, etc of a child or children.
In societies in this world that we live in, there are so many contaminants that can corrupt a child or children, and parents, whether single are other, should be equipped with the right knowledge of procedures to know how to take control of their child or children.
A true focus mind and a strong heart are what is needed, not premature minds and individuals with little understanding and with weak structure.
Someone with authority must be able to go forward with a child or children to keep them on the right passages of discipline.
Yes! Proper management that does not have a premature mind.
Proper management must be established in all areas of a household etc where a child or children is growing up in.
If there isn't any true structure for a child or children to be guided right there wouldn't be a good character in the child or children's growth.
Putting blame on anything or anyone other than yourself is selfish because you the Individual have or had time to change things around but unfortunately, something or someone got in the way, and some didn't and some never tried.
The young ones grow up with the mentality that no one can speak to them and they can do whatever they want where they want to, and that is certainly not the right mentality to walk with among societies in this world, as that is a mentality that trouble only follows.
There must be authentic stability in a home where and when it comes to raising a child or children.
Some children see their mother's being abused and some of them automatically take it upon themselves to carry on the same regime.
And as small as they are they show signs, actions, and voice comments of abusive behavior towards their parents and others.
There must be the right path and passages of true guidance when a child or children is involved.
Having a child or children comes with a tag for guidance in every truthful aspect there is, it is not a worthless challenge, it's of all motivational works in all ways, shapes, and forms, Yes! True guardianship helps a child or children evolve and get through.
Too many children are idling in passages and falling to the wayward side because of much negligence from parents and guardians, Yes! Most of them are stuck and going nowhere.
And most of them don't have the mentality to understand that there are truly beneficial ways of evolving in attitude, behavior, etc.
And for those individuals that like to play the blaming game to every question about the upbringing of a child or children I say! Grow Up.
I know how some like to represent themselves in trying to find an answer for their lack of sufficient guidance etc to just take the blame off themselves.
Some go as far as to mention their own upbringing and of never being taught to do such and such.
And you know what I would say to this? Hogwash! That is a useless and undefined concept of an answer that they try to push forth.
If any Individual really and truly wanted to improve themselves in passages whether it's learning to cook etc they would find a way to do such.
To do something that will help them to be more equipped and knowledgeable on child-raising, food preparation, etc.
They will definitely find a way, time, and resources to do it, that is if they are responsible, caring, and interested enough.
And no epic apology isn't going to put an individual in the limelight when they say that their parents never taught them to cook etc.
Those are just useless words coming from an individual or individuals with premature minds that is not interested in evolving or helping themselves or their child or children.
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