Women Don't Just Cry For Help - Reform Your Life.

The amount of women losing their lives in domestic disputes is alarming and it's an intrusion and disruption to their children and others' lives.

The deadly domestic cases that have arisen needs to be accessed with proper mandatory methods that should be put in place.

It has nothing to do with men preying on non -nationals as one ignorant publication noted.

The bottom line is that some men are just showing up a deadly devious part of themselves that remains hidden or that some women ignore or are too blind to see.

Please don't let it be about bias thinking or racial profiling of thinking, the matter at hand is that this problem is a relationship issue between men and women and sometimes others involved.

Women need to protect themselves and I'm not talking about weaponry, I'm talking about the basic need to have some common sense and be wise to choose men wisely.

Yes! The judiciary system has failed a lot of women, it failed me too.

But I did what was right for me and I disconnected myself from all penetration of that person in my life.

Meaning I stayed strong and made my voice known with no fear, that I no longer want him in my life what happened happened and I moved on.

I'm a no-nonsense individual and I am very strong, I was always told that I talk too much, but you know what? I know how to represent myself in words, deeds, and for a meaningful cause.

The big mistake that some women make is that they put their family and others into some situation when they are not needed and those same individuals turn on them with their biased thinking that does not help at all.

Yes! When a woman finds herself in a bad situation she must make her voice be known to show up the wayward doings that she has fallen into.

But broadcasting it to individuals that just add fuel to the fire isn't going to help as they are just going to make the situation go out of hand.

As some family members, etc try to crucify the women about telling lies, or they try to persuade them not to walk away from years of marriage, a big home, financial gained or what the man can provide.

You know what? It's all bull, you are the individual that is going through distress and danger not them and it's more important to decide what is good for you.

Willpower always comes into play and with strong willpower of heart, you have a way to get out of any situation that means you harm.

Today I am free, happy and I have been taught, yes I have learned who not to bring into my life.

Strength helps a lot to do with your procedures and your ability to move on, feeble-minded individuals that collapse at every sad situation wouldn't make it, you have to have a strong mentality, heart, etc to go on and not be afraid.

Women need to check themselves and check the men that they are getting connected to, to see, learn, hear and understand what volcanoes of a relationship they are about to step in.

Women need to fully access the men, as most of the time, red flags are always flying, its just that some women get so caught up in the men, how they look,  what they can provide for them, what they are doing to them, and what them as women can gain from the men.

And some women just let those things blindside them that they don't even see or recognize the red flags waving in their faces.

Obsession, controlling, aggression,  jealousy, abuse, and devious deadly thinking thoughts of words are all elements that some men carry that always trigger an avalanche in them with devious deadly ways.

Women don't just get help, reform yourselves, yes the judiciary system has failed many of us tremendously but it is up to us women to also secure and protect ourselves.

Women need to check the red flags that are coming from the men that they are attempting to commit themselves to.

Whether it's a conversation that went in a bad direction etc, there should be a feed, a red flag that will allow a woman to access a man to see his true identity in hiding.

Get to know from day one what the man is truly about before you step in.

Crying wolves is not going to help if women keep playing with the bad wolves.

Some women like to go in uncharted waters as they like to go after the imagery of quote on quote, bad boys, but it wouldn't be long before the same bad boys use their same bad boy mentality and ways of acting on those same women.

Yes! Some men have a lot of issues going on with them and women only find out when they flip, what I can tell women, in general, is to access the men before they connect to them.

Women need to wise up, they need to choose wisely, they need to access men that they let into their lives before walking into relationships blindly.

Men come in different sizes, shapes, colors, and mentalities, and the devious ones will always travel with the same package, and women must be on full alert when they get connected to a man that starts acting like a crazy savage.

My statement does not destroy women or men, it just states clear methods to avoid the criteria of disruptive men.

Any woman or man thinking otherwise just means that their mentality of thinking is all twisted.

Dominance is not about killing a woman, it's massive aggression that does.

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And I'm not only focusing on women alone I'm highlighting both men and women, the need to and the not too.

The fundamental aspect of any relationship is to divert to a strategic way that both parties can live by, not one trying to out beat or bash the other in a showcase of conflict, etc.

No one should be stationed in a battle with a relationship, it should never be a war zone, breakdowns do happen but that does not mean that it should accelerate to an altitude of someone having to lose their life.

Individuals need to see this clearly and they need to understand that some men are aggressive towards women and some women are aggressive towards men and the basic need for an agreement between the two parties is sometimes enveloped by treason by one or the other abusing the relationship, a prejudice that only manifests to someone being harm.

I have no prejudice here towards anyone, it's just plain common sense and wise decision theory of conversation to understandable beings.