Individuals living in societies in this world that all live in sometimes find themselves in much delima of ways, as they linked themselves together in matrimony with an individual that intrusively use the commitment as a shield, a channeling to input abusive ways.
Yes! Some do speak out but there are also silent ones, men, and women who continue in a regime of abuse and assault because they think that they cannot do any better by themselves, and some think that talking out will only put them in harms ways after being threatened, laughed at or ridiculed.
Not only in marriages can you find this sort of activity, but also in a normal relationship.
And most of them choose not to report it because of being ridiculed and laughed at by individuals in societies that they live in.
And some choose not to because they don't want others to see their marriage or relationship as a failure. Hmm! PLEASE WAKE UP!
Today I'm speaking about all relationships as sometimes because of the years they commit some go on to be common law marriage.
No relationship is worth being abuse mentally, physically, verbally or sexually, it's to much pressure, sleepless night's, unhappy ways, bad memories and other.
Dealing with sexual abuse in marriages some individuals think that because they put a ring on a finger and give others their name that automatically they own them, and can do whatever they want with them some even boldly declare ‘‘ I Own You’’ Seriously!
And that is not only wrong wayward thinking it's madness and whoever thinks like that needs a reality check or a straight jacket.
They are yet to understand the true meaning of ‘‘Marriage ’’ and a ‘‘ Relationship’’.
Being married or in a relationship with someone is not about slavery, abuse, assult, bullying or any other false way that might creep into individual's minds.
Marriage is a commitment between two individuals who carry a true love for each other, and they will use it as a base to develop a more prominent understanding between the two of them as they truly make their marriage work.
And it goes the same way for a relationship without the marriage certificate, as it's always a fifty, fifty workmanship between the two individuals involved.
It's about a true love, trust, commitment, understanding, communicating, sharing and caring, Yes! It's about togetherness.
Not a falsified way to dominate the other over trivial things that means nothing, or a structure to control and put into slaving ways.
And it's never about gaining an upper hand on anyone to use as a shield for abuse.
Some men and some women don't see the clarity and efficiency of their mates to know that they can do better and rise to great passages to do better in life instead of slaving in a home, being controlled and used like a puppet on a string.
Some individuals like to be the dominant one in marriages and relationships, they like to be the ruler, the giver, the one who says and puts everything in play, the one who they partners have to go to beg for something to use or get for the day.
This is a new era and I truly hope that individuals will wake up and get out of the webs that they are tied into.
And all ignorant thinking of mentalities should be fading away.
As now a woman can dictate what it is she wants out of life, out of her life.
Everyone has their own life to live despite what commitment of marriages and relationships they tied themselves to.
And an individual can say when they need companionship and when they don't, and no man or woman shouldn't be taken by force what a man or woman don't allow.
And for every man or woman in such predicament its really time to speak out, anyone using any inhumane method to abuse, terrorize, assault, victimize, bully or control should not be with you.
Women have a say, men have a say, everyone has a say, to what they will and will not tolerate or allow as forceful and unedifying acts in their life.
And no bias thinking should not be allowed, as its the blueprint for treason, abuse, and assaults in relationships.
Men are men and women are women and both can be leaders despite a false regime of bias thinking individuals that are trying to run others in the world with manmade lawless rules of law, a false predicament that cannot be justified.
Wayward thinking that individuals so intrusively put out to the viewing public through media broadcasting and others.
Everyone is equal everyone should have their own identity, there should never be a commanding controlling way in marriage or in any other relationship, as it wouldn't feel like anything but a solitary confinement area of passage that you put yourself in.
And no ‘‘I love You I Wouldn't Do It Again’’ should be accepted, because if the abuse happened the first and second time what about the third and onward?
After the first or second you should be getting out before it continues with more vengeance.
The quality of women should be acknowledged as a woman isn't just for housework, a woman should not be manhandled, abused, assaulted or used as a pleasure tool.
A woman should be appalled and appreciated for being that feminine structure that can help get things done.
She should be appreciated for her childbearing if she has any children and for her thinking of wanting to evolve into something more than just a housewife, pleasure machine etc.
Some men don't like to see their woman independent and secure, they like to know that she has to wait for them daily to ask for what she wants, that is why women should be independently structured and so Should those men that are getting the blunt edge of their marriage or relationship, Yes! The ones that fall into the same category of being abuse and assault.
Any man or woman that has meaningless procedures, advances, abuse or assault from anyone that does not qualify to be in a continuous marriage or relationship with them, needs to get out and speak up now is the time.
Free yourselves from any kind of false and wayward instrusions of commitments
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